In any relationship or friendship, a time comes when the partner might want to get away from you or lead life on their own. This is true in case of narcissist too and you can identify when such a thing is going to happen.
In this post we list some signs the narcissist is preparing to discard you.
1. Emotional Distance
One of signs the narcissist is preparing to discard you is the fact that they will begin making emotional distance with you. You will find that the care and love they show for you is slowly decreasing and they are trying to distance from you. They will show less case when it comes to being with you in difficult times of your life.
2. Increased Criticism
Friends who have been with you through thick and thin will begin to criticize you. This is one of the signs the narcissist is preparing to discard you. They will begin to find fault in your good too and their behaviour will suddenly change towards you. Interestingly, the things and facts for which they would have adored you in good times would look faulty to them and they would criticise you for these only.
3. Interest in New People
You could have been friends with these people for ages. At some times both of you might have shared secrets too. However, signs the narcissist is preparing to discard you will begin to get prominent when they desire to get away from you. They will find interest in new people and look for new friends and spend time with them to the level that they would begin avoiding you.
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4. Change in Communication Pattern
Earlier you would have seen that such people would have remained friends with you. They would communicate with you on regular basis. You would have known about all details of their life and this would have been the other way too. However, when signs the narcissist is preparing to discard you become prominent this communication between both of you would reduce drastically. You will see that they would begin ignoring your calls or caring for you the way they used to do earlier.
5. Future Plans would go Hazy
In case you were in a relation or friendship with any such narcissist, you would find all the future plans going hazy in a while only. You might have planned to go for a vacation together or spend quality time together. Do not be surprised in case you receive a phone call from them that they would be busy in some work and so they are not in a position to go on vacations with you.
These small vacation plan cancellations would only be the first step in this regard and lately you will see that all your future plans with these narcissist people will go hazy.
The above listed points are some of the signs the narcissist is preparing to discard you. Prepare your strategy accordingly in case you find any of these signs in your friend so that you do not receive a shock.
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