What Happens When Two Narcissists Break Up?

Narcissists are people who remained busy in self-care and self-praise only. A relationship between two narcissists does not last long and it is but natural that they will breakup with time. So the question arises as to what happens when two narcissists break up. In this post, we will analyse this fact in detail.

1. Blame Shifting

Blame shifting is the first thing that will happen when two narcissists break up. As such people have the habit of shifting blame for their wrongdoing on others, it is natural that when they breakup the blame for this breakup would shift on the other partner.

2. Feeling of Jealousy

Even if two narcissists have been in relation for long time, they have a feeling of jealousy towards each other. When two narcissists break up this feeling of jealously for each other gets deeper for each other. When they meet on some common platform later too, this feeling of jealously will remain imbibed and it would be no surprise if they display this feeling publicly.

3. Criticize Each Other

Narcissists are never true friends. Even when they breakup it is natural that they would be criticising each other. If both of them have common friends, you will see that these people will be criticising each other and spilling the beans.

4. Sharing of Secrets

In a normal scenario when a couple breaks up, they would not want to share the details of their married life with anyone. However, this would not be the case for a narcissist couple. You will find that their secrets would be out in public in no time. Infact, such people would feel happy that everyone knows about the secrets of their partner. However, this is a two-edged sword and secrets of both the partners would be out in the public.

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5. Would remain Self-Centred

If you think that when two narcissists break up there would be some change or improvement in their personality you are highly mistaken. Such a thing would never happen and both of the partners would remain self centered as before.

One threat of such personality is that in case such people marry again, their partner would suffer a lot as this aspect of their personality would never improve or get better in any case.

6. Trouble for Extended Family

A narcissist couple is problem for each other when they are married and trouble for their immediate families and extended family once they separate. Such people would keep troubling their parents, sisters, brothers and other family members even after the couple has separated. Be prepared to hear criticism of their spouse in case you have such a couple in the family who has now separated.

Narcissist people have a unique aspect of the personality that they remain busy in self-care and self-obsession only. Once such a couple separates this problem magnifies and not only both of them keep suffering but they trouble their loved ones too with tales of their past life for long.

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